{"id":5089,"date":"2020-10-26T19:47:15","date_gmt":"2020-10-26T18:47:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/damiengaleone.com\/?p=5089"},"modified":"2022-10-24T18:34:14","modified_gmt":"2022-10-24T16:34:14","slug":"my-vote-is-with-mr-rogers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/damiengaleone.com\/?p=5089","title":{"rendered":"My Vote is with Mr. Rogers"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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MR. ROGERS’ NEIGHBORHOOD, (AKA MISTEROGERS’ NEIGHBORHOOD), FRED ROGERS, (CA. 1970S), 1968-2001<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Imagine you are in a Starbucks or wherever your brain brings you when you imagine picking up a coffee and a cake. Now imagine two men (or women, up to you) are in line in front of you. Guy the First speaks politely to the barista. He orders his coffee, waits, and gets his coffee. When it\u2019s clear the barista has forgotten to include a lid, he asks her for one, dismisses her apology with a light-hearted joke about his own forgetfulness, thanks the barista, and goes on his way. Guy the Second is the opposite. He snaps his order to the barista, orders her around as if is something less demanding of human decency, and calls her a fucking moron for not including a lid. Instead of thanking her, he harshly berates her for ruining the rest of his day because of her gaff. And then he goes his way with a whistle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I don\u2019t think I have to go into the question of which of those two men you\u2019d feel more comfortable or happy with and which you\u2019d feel aggressively unpleasant towards and maybe be kind of embarrassed for. If you were the person standing behind these two men, you probably wouldn\u2019t concern yourself with the first person at all. Your life would go on and so would his. The second guy would be different. You might think for a while \u2013 what the hell is wrong with that guy?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Last week Donald Trump took two stabs at Joe Biden. The first was that Biden would make the apparently embarrassing mistake of believing scientists. A good deal of American voters couldn\u2019t quite figure out what the jab was and we looked around at each other with narrowed, confused eyes saying \u201cI don\u2019t get it. What was the jab?\u201d Trump might as well have said \u201cI\u2019ve heard that Biden is just unbelievably good in bed\u201d or \u201cThis Biden character pays all his bills on time and works out five times a week.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s clear that this was aimed at the, dear Dog please, fringe minority of Trump cultists who think that science is a conspiracy created by George Soros meant to keep human life from walking off the edges of the table-shaped world. But I don\u2019t have too much faith in my hopes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The second dig compared Joe Biden to Mr. Rogers. And for that Trump can just walk himself off the edge of our table earth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We all get why he did it. By comparing Joe Biden to Mr. Rogers he\u2019s suggesting that he\u2019s a milk toast too-nice-guy, not a tough guy like Trump not only pretends to be, but which has become a massive part of his persona.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There is so much to say about this that I could write a blog post a day for a year on Donald Trump vs. Mr. Rogers. But to narrow that down, let\u2019s just say that if Mr. Rogers was alive today, I would vote for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This line of commentary says so much more about Donald Trump than it does Joe Biden. Joe Biden, for his part, is a good and decent man. He\u2019s a family man, who takes responsibility for his actions. He’s not a bully or a braggart, as Trump is most hideously, on things he hasn’t done. Biden has so far talked about unifying a hurting country. This of course is in stark contrast to Donald Trump, a man of extraordinarily weak values and no integrity, who has pandered to an angry subset of the country while doing everything he can to drive a wedge between right and left America.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And no doubt this comment shows Donald Trump to be what he really is \u2013 a very sad, insecure person whose only care is what people think of him. He is insanely lacking in self-awareness and so desperately wants to come off as a tough guy that he\u2019s possibly the only man in America who would attack combat veterans of a war that he got out of because his heels hurt. I don\u2019t think there\u2019s any more need to put down Donald Trump, because honestly, I pity him. I really do.   <\/p>\n\n\n\n

More to the point, how could Trump think that attacking Mr. Rogers\u2019 character is A. reasonable for a man so lacking in every positive characteristic a human being can possess? And B. something that will endear him to a majority of Americans 10 days before they will vote for or against him? If you are somewhere near my age (46 in reality \/ 13 in my brain \/ 73 in my knees), then Mr. Rogers was a huge part of your life. He showed us all that he cared for us whether we were tall or short, fat or thin, black or white.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And to Trump\u2019s insinuation that Mr. Rogers was a wimp, he had the guts to soak his feet in a pool with Officer Clemmons at a time when the country battled over segregation. So in 1969, when the civil rights issue was at a fever pitch, Mr. Rogers had the guts to say that black and white were equal and the same, which is a thing Donald Trump is too scared to say fifty years later lest it upset those who like him. When Mr. Rogers found out that a blind girl at home couldn\u2019t see him feeding the fish, he said it aloud while he was doing it. More than a gesture, this showed a little girl that she was included. Donald Trump\u2019s policies during the coronavirus pandemic has been more or less \u201csorry you\u2019re going to die, but I need these people to think I don\u2019t believe in science.\u201d And yet when he got sick he got the best medical care the world can offer it. And afterwards, he had the gall to brag and dance. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I think we could use a little more Mr. Rogers in American politics. He taught generations of kids to treat others with respect, to love and help one another. He taught us to share and he treated everyone as if they mattered. What could possibly be wrong with a leader who espouses those ideas? But Mr. Rogers\u2019 legacy was that he knew we were all special and he found the good in everyone. Maybe, with a little bit of time and effort, he could even find the good in Donald. J. Trump. But that might be wishful thinking.     <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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